o te vdekt mama me cave coken me gjith mamen tende- this is like "I swear in God" but Albanians people swear on the head of their loved ones, in this case, of his mother.
I swear to God (but in this case he swears on the head of his mother, this is normal in our language)
me cave coken me gjith mamen tende- cave on my head, together with your mother.
all this, with a lot of words means: O comon, please, I have headpain, because of you and your mother, you two speak so much to me, I can't hear you anz more.