I hope this is rejected if someone remembers the correct phrase. Translated directly this is: the way you make your bed that's the way you sleep. We have another similar one saying: you mow what you sow...
Yes Maski, that's it. You were all very quick, I just went to the net to try to find it and I did. Too fast from me to do this in the first place, should search first, sorry all.
(I also found the other one I referred to:
As you sow, so shall you reap.)