As another user suggested "men" means "the men of your life", perhaps her husband and son?
I would also go for "do not sadden you" but I'm not sure if it's proper english to use sadden with a person. I only see it used for "this saddens me" or "it saddens me to...".
U vleresua ose u publikua se fundi nga Lein - 16 Shkurt 2013 12:14